This sucks. I am fed up with my massive mood swings for a number of reasons. First of all, I just shouldn't be so dependent for my mood on the whims of someone else. Second, it may all just be in my head anyway. From an objective point of view K has never given me anything other than signals that she really like me, and yet I still feel like I am being kept at a distance, and every time I am pushed back it feels awful. I think she is fantastic, but this is eating me up, and if she is not able to offer that reassurance as part of a compromise, I am not sure I will be able to stay sane while she opens up to let me in. All of my intuition is that "she is just not that into me", whether it's the not calling back thing, or the not willing to stay over.
My logical brain is telling me that this is my cognitive filters looking for the negative, and if I could just tune into the positive all would be well. But it's not that easy. Heart of hearts, I want her to be head over heels in love with me and talking about holidays, marriage and babies, but that's *way* too quick. Part of me respects that she is able to take things this slow, and I wish I could do the same, but right now? I just want a shred of comfort or commitment. Even taking down her profile!
Is this really worth it? It is if she gets there in the end...
Balls.
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